Am I Trans or Non-Binary?

The questions

1. Question 1 of 16Someone calls you "he" or "she" (whichever matches the gender you were given at birth). How does it feel?

   • It feels wrong, like they're talking about someone else.
   • A bit off sometimes, depending on the day.
   • I've never really thought about it.
   • Totally normal. That's me.
2. Question 2 of 16Imagine waking up tomorrow as a different gender. What's your first feeling?

   • Relief, like finally.
   • Curious, and kind of excited.
   • Weird, but interesting to think about.
   • I'd want to switch straight back.
3. Question 3 of 16How do you feel when you're grouped by gender, like "boys this side, girls that side"?

   • I feel like I'm standing on the wrong side.
   • I don't feel like I belong on either side.
   • It's a bit annoying, but fine.
   • I don't think twice about it.
4. Question 4 of 16Have you ever wished people would use a different name for you?

   • Yes, I've even picked one in my head.
   • Sometimes, a more neutral one.
   • Only a nickname, just for fun.
   • No, I like my name.
5. Question 5 of 16When you picture yourself as a grown-up, how do you look?

   • Like a different gender from the one I was given.
   • Somewhere in between, or it changes.
   • I can't really picture it.
   • Like a grown-up version of the gender I am now.
6. Question 6 of 16How do you feel when you hear someone describe what it's like to be trans?

   • It's like hearing my own thoughts out loud.
   • Some parts really ring true for me.
   • I find it interesting, but it's not about me.
   • I respect it, but I can't relate.
7. Question 7 of 16Which pronouns feel most like you?

   • The opposite of the ones I was given.
   • They/them, or a mix.
   • I'm not sure. I've never tried others.
   • The ones I already use.
8. Question 8 of 16How often do you think about your gender?

   • All the time. It's on my mind a lot.
   • Fairly often lately.
   • Now and then, when something reminds me.
   • Hardly ever. It just feels right.
9. Question 9 of 16A game lets you pick any character. How do you choose?

   • Always a different gender from mine, and it feels like me.
   • Different every time, whatever feels right that day.
   • Whoever looks coolest.
   • Usually my own gender.
10. Question 10 of 16How do you feel when someone calls you a "young man" or "young lady" (matching the gender you were given)?

    • I want to correct them.
    • It doesn't quite fit.
    • It's a bit old-fashioned, but fine.
    • That's me, no problem.
11. Question 11 of 16Have you ever felt that "boy" or "girl" doesn't describe you at all?

    • Yes, the other one fits better.
    • Yes, neither really fits.
    • Maybe on some days.
    • No, mine fits me fine.
12. Question 12 of 16You see a word like "non-binary" or "genderfluid" online. What do you do?

    • I already know what it means, and I've wondered about myself.
    • I look it up, and something clicks.
    • I look it up out of curiosity.
    • I scroll past.
13. Question 13 of 16If you could change how other people see your gender, would you?

    • Yes, completely.
    • A little, to feel more like me.
    • Not really, but I get why someone would.
    • No, I'm happy with it.
14. Question 14 of 16How do you feel about your gender on a normal day?

    • Uncomfortable, like something doesn't match.
    • It shifts from day to day.
    • Mostly fine, with the odd question.
    • Comfortable. I don't think about it.
15. Question 15 of 16Would you like to talk to other people who are questioning their gender?

    • Yes, I'd love to find people like me.
    • Maybe, if it felt safe.
    • I'd listen, but I don't think I'd share.
    • No, I don't think I need to.
16. Question 16 of 16Why are you taking this quiz?

    • I'm fairly sure I'm trans and wanted to see.
    • I think I might be non-binary or somewhere in between.
    • I'm curious about what it says.
    • I'm pretty sure I'm not, just checking.