Am I Asexual?

The questions

1. Question 1 of 16Your friends talk about someone being "hot". How do you feel?

   • Confused. I don't really get what they mean.
   • I can see they're good-looking, but I don't feel anything.
   • Sometimes I get it, sometimes I don't.
   • I totally get it. I feel that too.
2. Question 2 of 16When you have a crush, what do you want most?

   • I don't really get crushes like that.
   • To spend time together and hold hands. Nothing more.
   • Closeness first, and maybe more later.
   • Closeness and physical attraction, both.
3. Question 3 of 16How do you feel about kissing scenes in films?

   • I skip them or look away. They do nothing for me.
   • Fine, but I don't relate.
   • Some of them are sweet.
   • I enjoy them and imagine myself there.
4. Question 4 of 16Have you ever felt sexual attraction to a particular person?

   • Never, as far as I can tell.
   • Only after I got really close to someone.
   • Rarely, but yes.
   • Yes, quite often.
5. Question 5 of 16Your ideal date night looks like...

   • A cosy night with a friend. Romance isn't the point.
   • Cuddles and a film, no pressure.
   • Dinner, then see where it goes.
   • A romantic night with plenty of chemistry.
6. Question 6 of 16How do you feel when people say "everyone wants sex"?

   • That's not true for me at all.
   • I'm not sure it's true for me.
   • Mostly true, I guess.
   • Yes, that sounds right.
7. Question 7 of 16Someone attractive flirts with you. What's your first thought?

   • I didn't even notice it was flirting.
   • Nice, but I don't feel a pull.
   • Flattered, and a bit curious.
   • Excited. I flirt back.
8. Question 8 of 16Have you ever pretended to fancy someone to fit in?

   • Yes, many times.
   • Once or twice.
   • Not really.
   • No, I never needed to.
9. Question 9 of 16How important is a physical relationship to you?

   • Not at all.
   • Not very. Emotional closeness matters more.
   • It matters a bit.
   • It matters a lot.
10. Question 10 of 16When you picture a future partner, what do you imagine?

    • A best friend I share a home with.
    • Someone I'm close to, with affection but not much else.
    • A mix of friendship and romance.
    • Someone I feel strongly attracted to.
11. Question 11 of 16How often do you think about sex?

    • Almost never.
    • Only when someone else brings it up.
    • Sometimes.
    • Often.
12. Question 12 of 16Your friend asks who you'd date at school or work. What happens?

    • I can't think of anyone, and that's normal for me.
    • I pick someone I'd like as a close friend.
    • I think of one or two people.
    • I name someone straight away.
13. Question 13 of 16How do you feel about words like "asexual" or "ace"?

    • They sound like me.
    • They might fit, and I'm curious.
    • Interesting, but probably not me.
    • They don't fit me.
14. Question 14 of 16Does physical attraction ever just "switch on" when you meet someone?

    • Never.
    • Only after a deep bond.
    • Now and then.
    • Yes, quite often.
15. Question 15 of 16How do you feel about hugs and cuddles?

    • I like them, but they never feel sexual.
    • Nice with people I'm close to, nothing more.
    • Sometimes they lead to more.
    • They often make me want more.
16. Question 16 of 16Why are you taking this quiz?

    • I'm pretty sure I'm asexual and wanted to see.
    • I think I might be somewhere on the ace spectrum.
    • Just curious.
    • I'm fairly sure I'm not, just checking.